Patrick and Rachel
We're looking to adopt a baby
Hello! We are Rachel and Patrick. Thank you for spending some time with our profile. While we haven’t met you yet, please know that we are thinking of you. We hope that you are able to find clarity, support and peace as you navigate this challenging time.
Our story began while Patrick was pursuing his Ph.D. in Psychology at UCLA; Rachel had moved to the west coast for a job opportunity. After several months of dating, texting, and getting to know each other, we started making plans for our future.
When we talked about getting engaged, Rachel jokingly told Patrick that his proposal should "capture the essence of when Ben Wyatt proposes to Leslie Knope in Parks and Recreation," her favorite show. Patrick claimed he had never seen the episode—but secretly, he was researching the scene so he could propose in the same spot! He tracked it down, and the homeowner graciously allowed him to surprise Rachel with a proposal in her living room, just like Ben and Leslie's. In 2018, we had a wonderful wedding, with all of our family and friends surrounding us, and then settled into our first home.
Since then, we have added our dog, Cheddar Biscuit, to the family, fostered two sons, and enjoyed life. We enjoy traveling to visit family on the east coast and to explore places we've never been before, like Aruba and Alaska. Even in life's most difficult moments, we are so grateful to have found each other, to be able to navigate life together and to have the opportunity to grow our family through adoption.
Financial Support
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
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Navigating a pregnancy alone is never easy. Depending on your situation and location, you may qualify for financial assistance to help cover the cost of basic living expenses, such as food and groceries.
Medical Expenses
Receiving quality medical care during your pregnancy is vital to both your health and the health of your baby. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your pregnancy-related medical expenses will be covered by the adoptive family.
Rent & Utilities
Women who choose to place their baby for adoption may receive financial assistance to help cover the cost of rent and utilities. If you feel that you'll need some help with these costs, it's important to talk to your adoption social worker about it early in the process.
Household Items
In order to have a healthy pregnancy, it's important that you have everything you need to lead a healthy lifestyle. The cost of some household items may be covered during your pregnancy.
Counseling
Placing a baby for adoption is a loving but incredibly challenging decision. Many women experience a range of emotions during this time and find that counseling is very helpful.
Transportation
If you need assistance with transportation, your adoption social worker can help you find the best solution. You may be eligible for help with transportation costs.
Glimpses
Our photos will be available here as soon as we upload some. We're excited to share glimpses of our life with you!